A selection of Maitresse Nuit aka Nuit d'Or's articles on the psychology of BDSM & kink, relationship dynamics between Dominant & submissive, adventures in BDSM, evocative, erotic and very transgressive memoirs of past sessions. Here you can dive in the “BDSM Chronicles” which you can listen to on Patreon.
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BENEATH WANT | DESIRE EXAMINED | BLOG FOR PATRONS
Step beyond the surface with monthly deep-dives into the psychology of BDSM, paired with raw, reflective memoirs drawn from lived experience.
THE CHASTITY CAGE | acknowledging male chastity as a sacred offering | key holding beyond the device
The wax of a thin church candle drips on your balls, then on the length of your still throbbing cock… and on the gland.
Swiftly, I pass your soften member and balls through the ring and your cock slips into the cage which I lock.
BDSM FOR COUPLES | Sessions, Rituals, Ceremonies, Mentoring and Coaching
It takes a lot of courage both from a Dominant and a submissive to vow to be authentic and explore with openness what might turn each of us on, this creates a deeper sense of connection and love.
INTIMACY, GENDER REVERSAL, THE FEMALE COCK: musing on a photo set by Natasha Gornik
“The photo centres on a woman looking directly at the camera in a man’s attire, holding a bundle of rope, seated with her legs wide open. Her necktie is undone, seemingly at the ready to be used as a blindfold, gag or bondage. The shirt is unbuttoned to the sternum. The opened collar draws an arrow of near cinnamon skin which emphasises the intent of the woman’s gaze and then leads the eyes to the geometrically lit hand and the rope in a continuous loop.”